Stress has been eating away at me this week. I wrote a quick list of my stressors hoping it help with my stress level. Yeah, no.
Currently, like many folks, a big stressor is financially-based. We have had some health issues this year and even with medical and dental insurance we are spending oodles. On top of that, we need a new fence. The wrought iron fence that was here when we bought the house is incredibly rusted. In some areas, you can push your finger through the rusted areas and disconnect the fence. We have put down half the money and just waiting for our place in line. A fence around an entire property that is not shared with neighbors is a huge expense. Both of our neighbors are fence-less. This morning our downstairs TV died and our dogs both getting a badly-needed grooming. On top of that the pile of expenses add the amount it cost us to put my niece and her son up at a hotel for a week. The money is all going out before it has a chance to come in.
My next stressor is my life schedule. I love having a scheduled routine. I love putting my plans down on calendars. However, I do not like the back-to-back-to-back schedule that I will be facing in October (and probably through the end of the year). Rob is having two procedures in October and, possibly, a third in December. Besides the procedure dates, there will be post-op appointments. In addition, I still have my post-op and x-ray appointments. On top of that add Roger’s appointments at the orthodontist for an expander. I just realized that we all need our flu shots too. And, of course, we have Roger’s weekly OT, Swimming, Baseball, and Tutor. He also has nightly homework that I need to help with. I also signed up to be Room Mom Helper and trying to fit in volunteering at the school. Finally, I have my full-time work schedule. Just typing that all out stresses me out AND exhausts me!
My third stressor I listed under the category of FOOD. Then, I decided to add a slash and put weight loss. That reminds me that I am also trying to keep exercise and house cleaning in my schedule, as well as preparing dinner (Rob is usually the cook). As my blog stated yesterday, food/eating has been a life-long stressor since I was called “tub of lard” in elementary school. Kids are wonderful, eh?
My fourth stressor is work. Work has been overwhelming lately. I love my job and my colleagues. I actually prefer when there are projects that are due. However, returning a few weeks ago from my medical leave, I still have have back pain on and off. My supervisor would understand my need for breaks still. BUT I feel obligated to get the work done quickly and accurately. That is just my thing. I guess work is not the stressor but my expectation of myself at work. This morning I woke with terrible pain between the shoulder blades. This is an area that is known to flare up post-ACDF surgery. I need to be kinder to myself re: work (and life).
I usually don’t unload as much as I did today. My little sheet of paper lettered A-D with subheadings was just not doing the trick. I am hoping getting this all out of me will release a teeny bit of the stress. Re-reading this blog, I guess my only true stressor is my EXPECTATION of myself.